Who am I? Now that’s both an interesting and good question if only I knew the exact answer. If I try to narrow it down, regardless of where I start, I end up at the same place: I am David Galvez. I cannot say I am one particular person or play any particular role, for all my roles make me who I am. And, although I can narrow them down to which one is most important, I prefer not to because these characteristics are what make me unique and make me stand out.
In life, I play multiple roles whether it pertains to family, friends, or school. These roles are what build up my character and makes me both social and amiable to those I encounter. When I am a student, I am focusing on studying and what areas I need improvement in. As a friend, I am relaxed and enjoying my time of leisure or I am the shoulder to cry on. And when it comes to family, my obligations are much too grand to express all of them. I am an uncle, a son, a brother, a cousin, etc. But, what I find to be the most important role I play with my family is that of a role model.
It seems awkward to say I am a role model to my family since my parents are the ones that set these standards. But, I also enjoy pushing my family and challenging them into becoming successful. This determination brings us closer together and makes us stronger when dealing with life’s struggles. But, the main reason why I am setting the family standards so high is due to my two nieces. With one just starting school in a couple of days and the other half way into taking her first step, I want them on the road to success early on. I do not want them to settle for less or become a failure. I want them to think that if their uncle can make something of himself, then so can they. By me going to college and becoming successful, I am trying to give them the message that there are no limitations to their abilities. Nothing will bring me greater ecstasy than to see my two nieces, Nicole and Ashley, go to college and set a higher standard than the one I set. In a way this is also beneficial to me. By me wanting to deliver such a strong message keeps me in check and work harder to reach my goal in college. No one likes to see his or her family (not to mention him/herself) fail and for this reason I consider role modeling to be my most valuable role.
Furthermore, with my roles and characteristics comes my identity. It’s not just what other see me as, but what I myself as also. I am proud to say that I am Hispanic, a Cuban-American, and a confused one too. I fit all the stereotypical qualities of a Cuban: being loud, a passion for dancing, being the life of the party, and who can forget eating beans. They are considered to be stereotypes, but I see them as characteristics that a common culture have and share, differentiating them from the rest of the world. I accept all these characteristics I grew up with; it’s what makes me who I am. Why deny it?
I find myself to be a confused Hispanic because, even though I fit the personality of one, I also contain the qualities for the other side of the spectrum. I guess growing up as a Cuban-American made me bipolar. I enjoy being the life of the party and at the same time I like to shy away and be alone. I love to eat beans, but for some reason I cannot find myself to eat rice. My characteristics take opposite sides, or contradict themselves, but they are an interesting part of my personality.
To sum it all up, I am one crazy case. I have heart-warming roles and at the same time have a bipolar personality. To be honest, I find this to be a comical, yet exact, description of who I am. I take vital roles in my life to keep me on the ball. I also have unique characteristics that literally qualify me as a Cuban-American. I have all the qualities to categorize me as a Cuban, but I am better. I am Americanized. My personality is what makes me such a great and easily acceptable person by common culture. Whether it was due to my parents that I turned out this way, or life’s handful of experiences and struggles, I am glad I turned out the way I did. I could not have put myself together like this on my own. Thanks!
